Showing posts with label MY HAIR JOURNEY.. Show all posts
Showing posts with label MY HAIR JOURNEY.. Show all posts

Sunday, 19 January 2014

WEAVE GIRL GONE ALL NATURALLE....



Weaves weaves weaves!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I completed school in 2007, the whole time I was in high school, I never weaved my hair cause we were not allowed to do So ….when I completed school, I totally became a weave junky. 

Between 2008 and January 2013, I wore weaves about 90% of the time. I loved them so much, and I  think I kinda looked hot in them..lol

Nowadays people who have been in my life and knew me in my ‘weave phase’ still can’t believe that I have gone all naturalle. One of my friends even made a bet with me in 2013, he said I know you and your weaves, its just a matter of time before you install another one, but if you prove me wrong il give you ….…(lets not put figures here) lol.

Now, I did not stay away from weaves because I wanted to prove my friend wrong, and I DO NOT have any problem with weaves at all. If you love weaves, go right ahead and wear them….
I have stayed away from weaves because it’s a personal decision I made. I noticed the effect the weaves were having on my hairline and I just wasn’t going to have that anymore. Besides the thinning edges, I was experiencing a lot of breakage, not because of the weave, but because I always neglected my hair each time it was hidden under a weave and my hair would stay dry for as long as that weave was on my head. I choose to stay with my hair now coz that way its easier for me to monitor it and moisturise it accordingly.

Here are More pics of me in my weaves…….



 
 




 THANX
GOD BLESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NATURAL HAIR CHALLEGES IN ZAMBIA

    FINDING THE RIGHT PRODUCTS

     

    When i first watched the you tube videos and and saw all the products that were being used by all the natural hair gurus, i was like well this cant be so bad, am so gonna try this. Next day i went to town (lusaka) to find the products and start the journey.... to my disapointment i did not find any of the "great" products that most of the people talked about. NO giovanni, NO suave naturals, NO shear butter, NO sulphate-free shampoos etc!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was discouraged!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Then i came across www.zedhair.com , i was so excited to find a fellow zambian on a healthy hair journey. i asked her where she got her products and all the other things i needed to know about growing healthy hair with limited resources and all that. She was very helpful, i now knew where to get my coconut oil and my shea butter.
    Even though i never found the giovanni's and what not, i managed to find tresseme naturals and V05 conditioners. i have not been able to find a sulphate free shampoo upto now.
    If you are in zambia, lusaka and you want to know where to find great products for your hair, you can read Fatima's blog here .

    WATER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

     










    Water??????????????? yes water!!!! lol.
    Now don't get we wrong you all, we do have water in Zambia, actually in abundance. What i mean is that water in most if not all parts of zambia is hard. Hard water is simply water that has high mineral content. This is often evidenced by formation of limescale in kettles and water heaters (am sure you know that white stuff am talking about,lol)

    Hard Water's Effect on Skin and Hair
    While there is no proof that hard water is anymore unfit for consumption than soft water, there is is no question that the effects of hard water on hair and skin are not desirable.  Anyone who has had to “suffer” though a hard water shower knows the drying effect it can have on your skin so it’s a no brainer that hard water can also have the same effect on your hair. Besides the drying effect , higher levels of mineral deposits are left in the hair after washing and rinsing, such as iron, copper and lead and that is the biggest problem.
    The mineral elements in hard water cause hair’s cuticles to "stand up" which makes the hair feel rough and makes it more difficult to rinse away shampoo, conditioner and styling product. Additionally, because soap does not easily break down in hard water and does not lather as well, you will find yourself using more shampoo than necessary to achieve an acceptable lather.  From a cosmetic stand point, the deposits left in the hair by hard water can work to promote hair thinning and breakage, make hair resistant to coloring, fade color faster.  and can increase the volume of natural shedding. Calcium specifically chokes the hair follicle and coats the scalp, causing it to take on a flaky, dandruff like appearance .

    When i first learnt this, i did not know what to do, i mean i can't magically change the water that comes out of my tap right???
    And i am not rich enough (yet) to buy a water softening system or a filtered shower head to counter the effects of hard water on my hair. So i decided to go for a cheaper alternative - apple cider vinegar!!!!!!!!!!
     Apple cider vinegar (OR lemon juice)  work as a great clarifying agent which smooth the cuticle, cut down on excess product and washes away the extra mineral deposits hard water can leave behind.
    That is what am using for now, after i shampoo and condition, i follow up with an apple cider vinegar rinse before i add my leave-in conditioner and style my hair.


    Saturday, 18 January 2014

    11 MONTHS OF PROPER HAIR CARE LOOKS LIKE THIS....

    BEFORE...........



    AFTER..................


    chunky braid out

    chunky braid out

    twist out

    hair styled from a chunky braid out

    MY NATURAL HAIR JOURNEY


    My hair journey is funny to me because i still can not believe that it took me this long to figure out how to take care of my hair.
    I have kinda always been "natural". The trend in my country is to get a relaxer as soon as you graduate high school, but i never did that. I have very fine hair and so each time i would go to the salon to have my hair straightened, it would get bone straight and it would look 'relaxed'. Almost all the hairdressers i encountered told me i had nice hair and i should not spoil it by relaxing it. Am guessing their definition of nice hair was based on the fact that my hair did not take so much to get stretched.
    Another reason i did not relax my hair was because my mother kept preaching to me about how relaxers ruined her hair..(and yet she has never stoped relaxing. lol)

    Yah, so heat became my best friend and the only way i knew to take care of my hair.I had no idea how bad heat was for my hair.
    2012 heat stretched hair

    Occasionally, i would add a relaxer to the front portion of my hair just so i could wear an open weave, my natural hair never blended well with the weaves so i had to do something. (behind mum's back of course.lol)
    open weave

     I knew nothing about my ability to grow about 0.5 inches per month, so even though my hair stayed at shoulder length for years, i was not bothered. The only negative thing i noticed was people telling me my hair was thinning out. I hated those comments but i brushed them aside.
    january 2013 (Heat damage)
     January 2013, i stumbled upon the youtube natural hair community and i was shocked and amazed at how people care for their natural hair, i just could not believe how mean and rough i had been to my own hair.lol
    February 2013, i decided to begin my own journey, i was determined to see just how much potential i have to grow long healthy hair.
    So the first step was to cut some of my heat damaged ends, stay away from heat and come up with a plan to nurse myhair back to health.
    I started deep conditioning my hair weekly, i stayed away from weaves and any hairstyles that would put any strain on my hair especially my edges.
    The first few months were rough for me, because i was being very impatient.This was the very first time i was doing something about my hair and somehow i thought i would see results in like 2 days..that was not the case at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol. I only got to see a difference in my hair in august 2013, i dont knw know what i was trying to do, but i pulled on the back strands of my hair and i was shocked at how much it had grown...you can imagine the excitement.
    Feb 2014 will mark exactly one year of my healthy hair journey and am excited to enter the second year of my journey and see what my hair has for me this time around.
    I am enjoying my hair so far and i will document everystep of the way so i can monitor the ups and downs of this journey.



    dec 2013
    november 2o13
     I hope you have been inspired..
    GOD BLESS YOU.

    Friday, 17 January 2014

    intro

    I am a Zambian young lady on a natural hair journey. I am here to share that journey with you and hope to inspire women out there who still believe that black women can not grow long and beautiful hair. We are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God and it is time we learnt to embrace that beauty and uniqueness.